The Power Of Curiosity And Open Loops

Curiosity is one of the most powerful forces influencing human behaviour, yet it rarely receives the same attention as persuasion principles such as reciprocity, authority, or social proof. It is the instinctive desire to know what we do not yet know, to solve unanswered questions, and to complete incomplete information. Every day, it shapes what we click on, what we read, the conversations we have, and even the purchasing decisions we make.

For managed service providers, curiosity is particularly valuable because IT services can often feel technical, complex, and difficult for non-technical business owners to engage with. Prospects are rarely excited by lists of software features or detailed descriptions of security controls. They are, however, naturally drawn towards discovering something they didn’t already know, particularly if it could affect their business.

Used ethically, curiosity creates attention without creating pressure. Rather than persuading people through exaggerated claims or scare tactics, it encourages them to learn. That makes it one of the most effective ways of beginning a relationship built on trust and expertise.

The Psychology Behind Curiosity

Psychologists have spent decades trying to understand why curiosity is such a powerful motivator. One of the most influential explanations came from Professor George Loewenstein of Carnegie Mellon University, whose Information Gap Theory suggests that curiosity emerges whenever people become aware of a gap between what they already know and what they want to know.

Once that gap has been recognised, the brain becomes motivated to close it. The stronger the perceived gap, and the more personally relevant the missing information feels, the stronger the desire to discover the answer.

This explains why certain headlines immediately capture attention:

  • “The Microsoft 365 setting most businesses overlook.”
  • “The one cyber security mistake we keep finding during client audits.”
  • “Why this simple backup check could save your business.”

Each creates a genuine question in the reader’s mind. Importantly, none relies on deception. Instead, they invite the audience to discover information that could prove genuinely valuable.

Research has shown that curiosity is more than simple interest. It actually changes the way our brains process information. Studies led by Dr Matthias Gruber at the University of California, Davis, found that when people become genuinely curious, activity increases in the brain’s reward system while the hippocampus, the area responsible for forming long-term memories, also becomes more active. In practical terms, this means people are more likely to remember information learned while they are curious than information presented when they are not.

For MSPs, that finding is particularly significant. Business owners are constantly exposed to information about cyber security, cloud services, compliance, artificial intelligence, productivity software, and countless other technology topics. Much of it is quickly forgotten. Creating curiosity before presenting important information dramatically increases the likelihood that your audience will pay attention and remember what you tell them.

Another classic piece of psychological research helps explain why unanswered questions can stay with us for surprisingly long periods. In the 1920s, psychologist Bluma Zeigarnik observed that restaurant waiters remembered unpaid orders with remarkable accuracy but often forgot them soon after customers settled their bills. This became known as the Zeigarnik Effect, demonstrating that incomplete tasks and unanswered questions remain active in our minds until they are resolved.

This principle explains why cliff-hangers are so effective in television dramas, why readers continue turning the pages of a good novel, and why unfinished conversations can linger in our thoughts for days. Our brains dislike uncertainty. They naturally seek closure.

For marketers and sales professionals, the implication is clear. When curiosity is created ethically and followed by genuinely useful information, people become more engaged, learn more effectively, and are far more likely to remember the message. The key is that the curiosity must always be rewarded. An unanswered question may capture attention, but only a valuable answer builds credibility and trust.

In many ways, curiosity is not about creating mystery for its own sake. It is about creating a genuine desire to learn. For MSPs whose role is ultimately to educate, advise, and guide businesses towards better technology decisions, that makes curiosity one of the most valuable persuasion drivers available.

Why Curiosity Is So Powerful In MSP Marketing

One of the biggest challenges facing managed service providers is that the services they offer are often invisible when everything is working properly. Clients rarely think about firewalls, backups, Microsoft 365 security policies, endpoint protection, or network monitoring until something goes wrong. As a result, traditional marketing that simply lists technical services often struggles to generate genuine interest.

Curiosity helps overcome this problem because it changes the focus from the technology itself to the questions that matter most to business owners. Instead of telling prospects what you do, it encourages them to think about what they may not know, what they may be overlooking, or what opportunities they could be missing.

For example, compare these two opening statements:

“We provide comprehensive cyber security services for businesses.”

Now compare that with:

“What’s the one Microsoft 365 setting that leaves thousands of businesses exposed without them realising it?”

The second statement immediately creates an information gap. Rather than simply describing a service, it invites the reader to discover something potentially important. They become an active participant instead of a passive reader.

This approach works because curiosity changes the relationship between the MSP and the prospect. Instead of feeling like they are being sold to, prospects begin exploring a problem alongside you. The conversation becomes educational rather than promotional.

Turning Technical Subjects Into Business Conversations

Many MSPs make the understandable mistake of talking primarily about technology. They discuss cloud infrastructure, endpoint detection, secure networking, compliance frameworks, patch management, and backup solutions. While these topics are important, they are rarely what business owners are thinking about during their working day.

Business leaders are usually thinking about very different questions.

How can we reduce disruption?

Are we exposing the business to unnecessary risk?

Can we improve productivity?

Are we making sensible technology investments?

Could something we’re unaware of be causing problems?

Curiosity provides a bridge between these business concerns and the technical expertise that MSPs possess. Rather than starting with the solution, effective marketing starts with a question that reflects the prospect’s own concerns.

For example:

  • “Why are so many businesses paying for Microsoft 365 licences they never use?”
  • “What do cyber criminals usually look for first when targeting a small business?”
  • “Could your backups actually fail when you need them most?”

Each question naturally encourages further engagement because the answer has obvious relevance to the reader’s own organisation.

Building Engagement Instead Of Chasing Attention

Modern businesses are overwhelmed with information. Every day they receive countless emails, LinkedIn posts, newsletters, webinar invitations, vendor updates, and marketing messages competing for their attention.

Simply making more noise is rarely the answer.

Curiosity offers a more sustainable approach because it earns attention instead of demanding it.

A well-written article title, an intriguing webinar introduction, or an insightful LinkedIn post doesn’t rely on exaggerated claims or sensational headlines. Instead, it presents a genuine question that deserves an answer.

For example, an MSP might publish an article titled:

“The Unexpected Reason So Many Cyber Insurance Claims Are Being Rejected.”

The objective is not simply to encourage someone to click. The objective is to provide a useful explanation that helps business owners better understand an issue that could affect them directly.

When every piece of content consistently rewards curiosity with practical advice, something important begins to happen.

Prospects start to associate your organisation with valuable insights rather than marketing messages.

Over time, this builds credibility, familiarity, and trust long before any sales conversation takes place.

Curiosity Creates Better Sales Conversations

Curiosity is equally valuable during face-to-face meetings and discovery calls.

Many sales conversations begin with a list of questions followed by a presentation of solutions. While there is nothing inherently wrong with this approach, it often positions the prospect as someone receiving information rather than actively participating in the conversation.

A more engaging approach is to encourage prospects to become curious about their own environment.

Instead of saying:

“You should review your Microsoft 365 security settings.”

An MSP could ask:

“Would you like to see the security setting that surprises almost every business we assess?”

Rather than immediately recommending changes, the prospect becomes interested in discovering what has been found and why it matters.

This subtle change has a significant effect on the conversation. Instead of defending the status quo, prospects begin asking questions themselves. They become more receptive because they have developed a genuine desire to understand the issue.

This is one of the reasons the most successful MSPs often position themselves as trusted advisers rather than technology suppliers. Their objective is not simply to provide answers, but to stimulate better questions.

Ultimately, curiosity is not about creating mystery for its own sake. It is about encouraging meaningful engagement. When business owners become genuinely interested in understanding their own technology, risks, and opportunities, they are far more likely to appreciate the expertise that an experienced MSP can bring.

Using Curiosity Ethically In Sales, Websites & Content

Like every persuasion driver, curiosity can be used well or badly. At its best, it encourages people to learn something genuinely valuable. At its worst, it becomes little more than clickbait, making promises that the content fails to deliver.

For MSPs, whose success depends on long-term relationships built on trust, honesty, and expertise, the ethical use of curiosity is not simply preferable, it is essential. A prospect who feels misled by an exaggerated headline or an over-hyped sales presentation is unlikely to view your business as a trusted adviser, no matter how strong your technical capabilities may be.

The good news is that genuine curiosity doesn’t require exaggeration. In fact, the most effective curiosity is based on real questions that your prospects genuinely want answered.

Creating Information Gaps Without Creating Frustration

An information gap should always feel natural. It should encourage someone to discover something worthwhile, not trick them into clicking a link.

For example, a webinar titled “Five Microsoft 365 Security Mistakes That Could Be Costing Your Business” creates curiosity because it hints at useful knowledge without revealing everything immediately.

Similarly, a LinkedIn post that begins:

“One of our engineers spotted a configuration issue this week that we’ve now seen in dozens of businesses…”

immediately encourages the reader to continue because they naturally want to know what the issue was and whether it could affect them too.

The important point is that the answer must justify the reader’s investment of time. Every unanswered question should be followed by practical advice, useful insight, or a genuinely valuable lesson. When curiosity consistently leads to worthwhile information, prospects begin to trust that engaging with your content is time well spent.

Curiosity Throughout The Customer Journey

Many MSPs think of curiosity as something used only in marketing, but it can improve almost every stage of the customer journey.

It might begin with a website headline that encourages visitors to learn more about cyber security risks. It continues through blogs, videos, newsletters, and webinars that answer one important question while naturally introducing the next. During discovery meetings, curiosity can help prospects think differently about their own business, while proposals can take clients through the discoveries that led to each recommendation instead of simply presenting a list of solutions.

This gradual process of discovery feels collaborative rather than persuasive. Instead of telling prospects what they should do, you’re helping them understand why change may be necessary.

That subtle difference often makes sales conversations feel far less confrontational and far more productive.

Asking Better Questions

Curiosity is not only about the questions you ask in your marketing. It is equally powerful in the questions you ask your prospects.

Experienced consultants know that the right question can completely change the direction of a conversation. Rather than asking questions designed simply to gather information, they ask questions that encourage reflection.

For example:

“If your systems were unavailable tomorrow morning, which department would feel the impact first?”

“Which parts of your IT estate haven’t been reviewed in the last two years?”

“If you were audited next month, where would you feel least confident?”

Questions like these encourage business owners to think beyond the immediate conversation. Quite often they begin identifying risks or opportunities for themselves, making the discussion far more meaningful than a straightforward sales presentation.

This approach also reflects an important finding from behavioural science. People generally place greater value on conclusions they reach themselves than those simply presented to them. By helping prospects discover the answers rather than delivering them outright, MSPs create stronger engagement and greater commitment to taking action.

Reward Every Question

Perhaps the most important rule is that curiosity should always be rewarded.

If you encourage someone to download a guide, attend a webinar, or read an article, they should finish feeling that they have learned something genuinely useful. Every interaction should increase their understanding, not simply increase your marketing metrics.

This is where many organisations fall short. Sensational headlines may generate clicks, but if the content offers little substance, readers quickly lose confidence. Attention may be won temporarily, but trust is lost.

Successful MSPs take the opposite approach. They consistently over-deliver on the promises they make. Their articles answer important questions thoroughly. Their webinars provide practical advice that attendees can use immediately. Their assessments uncover genuine issues and explain them clearly. Their proposals educate as much as they recommend.

Over time, prospects begin to associate the business with reliable expertise rather than clever marketing.

Curiosity As A Trust Builder

Ultimately, curiosity is not about withholding information. It is about creating a genuine desire to understand something that matters.

When used ethically, curiosity becomes one of the most effective trust-building tools available to an MSP. It encourages business owners to engage with your content, participate in conversations, ask better questions, and think more deeply about the challenges facing their organisation.

Every useful answer strengthens your credibility. Every valuable insight reinforces your expertise. Every meaningful conversation makes the next interaction more likely.

That is why curiosity should never be viewed as a marketing trick. Properly applied, it is simply the starting point of an educational journey that helps prospects make better-informed decisions. For an MSP seeking to become a long-term technology partner rather than just another supplier, there are few persuasion drivers that offer greater long-term value.

Bringing It All Together

Curiosity is often described as the spark that starts the buying journey, and that is exactly what it is. Before someone can appreciate your expertise, trust your advice, or seriously consider your recommendations, they first need a reason to engage. Curiosity provides that reason.

Throughout this series, we’ve explored a wide range of persuasion drivers, from reciprocity and authority to storytelling, future pacing, and energy. Curiosity doesn’t replace any of these. Instead, it complements them by encouraging people to take the first step.

A business owner who becomes curious about an overlooked cyber security risk is more likely to read your article. Once they’re reading, they experience the value of your expertise. If your advice is practical, credible, and relevant, you begin to establish authority. Case studies and client stories reinforce social proof, while thoughtful questions encourage commitment and further engagement. In many ways, curiosity acts as the gateway through which the other persuasion drivers begin to work.

This is particularly important for MSPs because technology purchasing decisions are rarely made immediately. Prospects often spend weeks or even months researching suppliers, reading content, attending webinars, and speaking to colleagues before deciding who they trust. Every valuable interaction moves them a little further along that journey.

Businesses that consistently educate rather than simply promote are far more likely to become the organisation prospects remember when the time comes to make a decision.

Practical Ways To Apply Curiosity

The encouraging thing about curiosity is that it doesn’t require a complete change in your marketing strategy. Small adjustments to the way you communicate can make a significant difference.

When writing website headlines, lead with the question or challenge rather than the service itself. Instead of immediately describing your solution, encourage visitors to discover why the issue matters.

When producing blogs or newsletters, think about the questions your clients ask most often. Those questions frequently make the strongest article titles because they already reflect genuine curiosity.

In presentations and webinars, avoid revealing every answer in the opening few minutes. Instead, build a logical sequence where each section answers one important question while naturally leading into the next. This keeps audiences engaged without feeling manipulated.

During sales meetings, resist the temptation to do all the talking. Ask thoughtful questions that encourage prospects to reflect on their own business, risks, and objectives. People often become far more committed to solving problems they have identified themselves.

Most importantly of all, always reward curiosity with genuine value. Every article, webinar, assessment, proposal, or meeting should leave the prospect knowing something useful that they didn’t know before.

A Curiosity-Led Approach To Marketing

Many MSPs compete by talking louder than their competitors. They publish more content, send more emails, and make bigger claims.

The most effective MSPs often take a different approach.

They become known for asking better questions.

Rather than simply promoting their services, they help prospects understand technology more clearly. They explain risks without exaggeration. They simplify complex subjects. They uncover opportunities businesses hadn’t previously considered. They consistently leave people feeling better informed than when the conversation began.

That approach naturally builds trust.

When curiosity is combined with valuable insights and genuine expertise, it becomes far more than a marketing technique. It becomes the foundation of a trusted adviser relationship, where prospects actively seek out your opinion because experience has taught them that engaging with your content is always worthwhile.

For MSPs looking to build long-term client relationships rather than simply generate short-term sales, that may be one of the most powerful competitive advantages of all.

References

  • Gruber, M. J., Gelman, B. D. & Ranganath, C. (2014). States of Curiosity Modulate Hippocampus-Dependent Learning via the Dopaminergic Circuit. Neuron, 84(2), 486–496.
  • Loewenstein, G. (1994). The Psychology of Curiosity: A Review and Reinterpretation. Psychological Bulletin, 116(1), 75–98.
  • Zeigarnik, B. (1927). On Finished and Unfinished Tasks. Psychologische Forschung, 9, 1–85.

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